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Sunday, November 23, 2014

Being Thankful: A Secret Ingredient to Happiness

It seems that for many, the search for happiness is an endless endeavor that leads them to countless types of attempts to obtain, each resulting in more thorns and thistles than fruit and nutrition. In truth, although happiness is more of a delusion of society than it is a tangible object, the scriptures lead us to a deeper sense of fulfillment through Christ, which leads us to the ever so coveted state of happiness. However, happiness isn’t so much of a thing that we can acquire, rather it is something of which we already behold.

One of the most essential ingredients of happiness is gratitude. Gratitude, a simple emotion with a spiritually powerful impact and numerous medical health benefits, requires one to be humble, accepting of their circumstances for what they are, while making emotional room for the unmet expectations, preferences or jealousy of what others seem to have in their life.

Research consistently shows that those who routinely practice the art of gratitude, experience life more optimistic, less self-centered with a greater sense of self-esteem, and a deeper spiritual walk without a strong need for materialism or worldly affairs.  Other key benefits of gratitude are a healthier immune system, a higher quality of sleep and relaxation, improved confidence, creativity and sense of connection to others.

So what are different ways to practically practice gratitude in our lives. To begin with, one can begin to simply notice the everyday opportunities in their life where they could practice (or pretend) to be thankful. In fact, a five-minute a day gratitude journal can increase your long-term well-being by more than 10%.

Other ways to grow in the spirit of gratitude is to maintain a larger perspective of life. We often times evaluate our life based on “what we don’t have” and “how far we have yet to go” in our journey through life. When we truly embrace the gift of gratitude we begin to take into account more of what we do have to offer and the gifts we have already been given. One question I try to remind myself of is “whose dream are you living?” If we stop to think of it, every one of us has at least a handful of realities that others in this community, country, and especially world would love to have. Whether it be two working legs, a sound mind, a healthy family, or simply a computer screen to read this article on , we all have been abundantly blessed in ways that we so easily overlook. Jesus was very clear on this point when he spoke in The Beatitudes during His Sermon on the Mount. I would highly recommend a variety of devotionals and study guides that help you personally connect to The Beatitudes in a deeper and more meaningful way.

In closing, as we prepare for this Thanksgiving Day celebration, I personally challenge and purposefully pray that each of you genuinely reflect on the blessings and gifts that Our Loving Father has granted each of you. And may we all learn to truly speak from our hearts a loud giving of thanks!

Justin





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